Caring for an elderly person with depression – A silent pain that many families don't recognize.

This article helps families understand the signs. depression in the elderly, the underlying cause and proper care To help elderly parents maintain emotional stability.

Not all elderly people are sad because of illness.

There are sorrows that come from:

• feeling left behind
• feeling no longer needed
• feeling like a burden

And the scariest thing is:

👉 These feelings are not expressed.

Many families only realize this when:

• The elderly parents are not very talkative.
• I don't want to eat.
• I don't want to go outside.
• or just sit alone all day

But at that time, Depression has begun. long ago.

What is depression in older adults?

Unlike in younger people, depression in older adults does not manifest clearly through emotions.

Instead:

• silent
• low interaction
• decreased interest in everything.

Older adults may:

• I don't want to eat.
• sleeping too much or having trouble sleeping
• I don't want to talk.

👉 And many families mistakenly think that's "calculating old age."

The real reason

It's not just a disease.

Instead, it is:

• children are busy
• There are few people to talk to.
• losing a role in the family.
• declining health

Especially for those who used to be very active, the feeling of "losing value" can easily arise when they have to sit in one place.

What families often overlook.

Because there were no clear signs.

• No fever.
• It doesn't hurt.
• No emergency.

But inside, the elderly are:

• lonely
• Sad
• and gradually withdraw into themselves.

👉 This is why depression in the elderly is often detected late.

What do elderly people with depression need?

It's not the first drug.

Instead, it is:

• someone to chat with
• There is someone who listens.
• someone is there

Besides:

• maintain a regular routine
• eat properly
• light exercise

Most importantly, don't leave them alone for too long.

Can the family take care of them themselves?

Maybe.

But the reality is:

• children go to work
• No time to be together all day.
• I don't have enough patience to repeat it every day.

And Depression does not improve, or even heavier.

If you notice your elderly parents showing signs of sadness, reduced conversation, or withdrawal, don't wait until it's too late.

Many families now choose SAN – an application caring for the elderly, patients To have someone to talk to and support you with your daily life.

Download the SAN app or call the Hotline: 1900.0666.88 for advice.

Common mistakes

• The biggest mistake is thinking, "It will just go away on its own."
• The second mistake is focusing only on physical ailments while neglecting psychological well-being.
• The third mistake is leaving elderly people alone for too long.

👉 Depression won't go away on its own without connection.

Compare the three options.

Acquaintance / broker

They are capable of childcare, but lack communication and psychological support skills.

Nursing home

• Costs range from 20 to 60 million VND per month.
• Living with many people
• But there isn't always personal attention.
• Older people are more prone to homesickness and feeling lonely.

Home care

• Keep the environment familiar.
• Someone is chatting.
• Care can be personalized.

👉 This is the most suitable option for depression.

Actual cost

• Elderly care: 20 – 60 million VND/month
• Daycare: 500,000 - 800,000 VND/day
• At home: 40k – 70k/hour

👉 For those who need "someone to be there," home care is the most reasonable option.

Why do many families choose SAN?

It's not because they need someone to take care of them.

Because I needed someone to be by my side.

The SAN girls:

• trained
• know how to listen
• knowing how to interact with the elderly

Besides:

• living support
• take him to the doctor.
• hospital care

SAN is a partner of:

• Military Hospital 175
• City International Hospital

Elderly people don't say it out loud, but they need to be there for them.

Don't let the silence last too long.

Download SAN – an app for caring for the elderly and sick, or call the Hotline: 1900.0666.88 for advice tailored to your family's needs.

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