{"id":9946,"date":"2025-12-13T17:27:32","date_gmt":"2025-12-13T10:27:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sanpro.vn\/?p=9946"},"modified":"2026-05-16T16:08:23","modified_gmt":"2026-05-16T09:08:23","slug":"tam-ly-nguoi-cao-tuoi-khi-vao-vien-duong-lao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sanpro.vn\/en\/blog\/the-psychology-of-elderly-people-when-admitted-to-a-nursing-home\/","title":{"rendered":"Analysis of 3 Common Psychological Groups of the Elderly Regarding Care in Nursing Homes"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1>Analysis of 3 Common Psychological Groups of the Elderly Regarding Care in Nursing Homes<\/h1>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<div class=\"ast-oembed-container\" style=\"height: 100%;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"SAN: Accompanying the Elderly in Medical Check-ups - Peace of Mind for the Elderly\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/URHpct13GJA?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<p>When choosing a care environment for elderly relatives, the decision about nursing homes is always a sensitive topic. Many young people often assume that their parents&#039; reaction will be either negative or positive. However, the feelings of older adults are much more diverse. If you listen carefully, you will realize at least three major groups of emotions when they face the word &quot;nursing home.&quot;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"The psychological state of elderly people when entering nursing homes.\" class=\"wp-image-9945\" decoding=\"async\" height=\"1024\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" src=\"https:\/\/sanpro.vn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/BAI-17-H1_-Ba-tam-trang-thuong-gap-cua-nguoi-cao-tuoi-khi-nghe-den-hai-chu-vien-duong-lao.jpg\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sanpro.vn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/BAI-17-H1_-Ba-tam-trang-thuong-gap-cua-nguoi-cao-tuoi-khi-nghe-den-hai-chu-vien-duong-lao.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/sanpro.vn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/BAI-17-H1_-Ba-tam-trang-thuong-gap-cua-nguoi-cao-tuoi-khi-nghe-den-hai-chu-vien-duong-lao-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/sanpro.vn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/BAI-17-H1_-Ba-tam-trang-thuong-gap-cua-nguoi-cao-tuoi-khi-nghe-den-hai-chu-vien-duong-lao-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/sanpro.vn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/BAI-17-H1_-Ba-tam-trang-thuong-gap-cua-nguoi-cao-tuoi-khi-nghe-den-hai-chu-vien-duong-lao-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/sanpro.vn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/BAI-17-H1_-Ba-tam-trang-thuong-gap-cua-nguoi-cao-tuoi-khi-nghe-den-hai-chu-vien-duong-lao-12x12.jpg 12w, https:\/\/sanpro.vn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/BAI-17-H1_-Ba-tam-trang-thuong-gap-cua-nguoi-cao-tuoi-khi-nghe-den-hai-chu-vien-duong-lao-600x600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/sanpro.vn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/BAI-17-H1_-Ba-tam-trang-thuong-gap-cua-nguoi-cao-tuoi-khi-nghe-den-hai-chu-vien-duong-lao-100x100.jpg 100w\" width=\"1024\"\/><\/p>\n<h2>1. There is no common sentiment about nursing homes.<\/h2>\n<p>The truth is, the moods of older adults aren&#039;t limited to just two extremes: happy or sad. Categorizing moods helps families find appropriate care solutions, ensuring comfort and respect for the elderly. The three main groups include:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>The group fears abandonment (fear of loneliness, fear of being judged).<\/li>\n<li>The group felt relieved (wanting to reduce the burden on their children and grandchildren).<\/li>\n<li>A neutral group, willing to consider options (provided they are respected and consulted).<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>2. The Fear of Being Abandoned \u2013 Anxiety of Loneliness and Social stigma<\/h3>\n<p>Older adults in this group often have a very strong attachment to familiar spaces: their home, neighbors, bedside, yard. Their greatest fear is not the quality of the meal or the physical facilities, but the feeling:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Afraid of being called &quot;unfilial&quot; or &quot;abandoning their parents in the hospital&quot; by outsiders.<\/li>\n<li>Worry is no longer at the center of the family&#039;s life.<\/li>\n<li>I&#039;m afraid no one will visit regularly, leaving me alone with a stranger.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>For this psychological group, alternatives or supplements such as services are available. <a href=\"https:\/\/sanpro.vn\/dich-vu\/cham-soc-nguoi-gia-tai-nha-theo-gio-tphcm\/\">Elderly care<\/a> At home, home nursing care is often more readily accepted, helping them maintain connection and safety in a familiar environment.<\/p>\n<h3>3. The Group Feeling Relieved \u2013 Desiring to Reduce the Burden<\/h3>\n<p>This is a psychological group that is rarely anticipated by younger generations. Many elderly people express a desire to enter a nursing home for practical and humanitarian reasons. They often say, &quot;At home, our children are always working, and we&#039;re all alone; we feel sorry for them.&quot;<\/p>\n<p>This group typically:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>It&#039;s very clear how much effort our children and grandchildren put into balancing work and childcare.<\/li>\n<li>I want to have a place with nurses and doctors, with clear and stable operations.<\/li>\n<li>I want to reduce the psychological burden on my family.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>If older adults require specialized medical support due to age or illness, moving to a stable environment such as a nursing home or utilizing a healthcare service may be necessary. <a href=\"https:\/\/sanpro.vn\/dich-vu\/cham-soc-nguoi-benh-tai-nha-tphcm\/\">Caring for the sick<\/a> Choosing professionally is a sensible option. It&#039;s not disrespectful if the decision comes from the wishes of the elderly person and the family remains connected.<\/p>\n<h3>4. Neutral Group: Open to Discussion, Provided No Imposition<\/h3>\n<p>This group makes up a significant portion of the population. They are open to alternative options but prioritize involvement in the decision-making process. This group includes:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Be prepared to listen to your children and grandchildren analyze the pros and cons: staying at home, nursing home, in-home care\u2026<\/li>\n<li>I&#039;m willing to try it if it seems reasonable, but I want a clear and transparent explanation.<\/li>\n<li>I don&#039;t like the &quot;it&#039;s all done, parents just have to... agree&quot; attitude.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>With this group, the best approach is to present the information directly, without sugarcoating or threatening, and give them time to think. Respect their decisions, even if they want to &quot;stay home a little longer and then figure things out later.&quot;<\/p>\n<h2>5. Choosing Care Solutions Based on Mood<\/h2>\n<p>Choosing the right care option shouldn&#039;t start with the services available, but rather with the individual needs and feelings of each older adult. Instead of asking, &quot;Which package is the cheapest?&quot;, ask, &quot;What are your biggest concerns?&quot;<\/p>\n<p>Understanding psychology helps in proposing appropriate solutions:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Some elderly people are suitable for a day-care model combined with regular home visits from caregivers.<\/li>\n<li>There are some people who are suitable for the job. <a href=\"https:\/\/sanpro.vn\/dich-vu\/giup-viec-nha-theo-gio-o-tphcm\/\">Housemaid<\/a> Hourly rates to assist with daily activities, in conjunction with other forms of specialized care.<\/li>\n<li>Maintaining mental and physical health is also a top priority, hence services such as <a href=\"https:\/\/sanpro.vn\/dich-vu\/massage-tri-lieu-tai-nha\/\">Therapeutic massage<\/a> At-home care should also be considered to improve quality of life.<a href=\"https:\/\/chamnguoigiatainha.com\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">.<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The ultimate goal of any care solution is to help older adults feel less 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